1. Demand that your spouse meets your needs.
2. Pout when you don't get your way.
3. Use the silent treatment when you are mad.
4. Always put yourself first.
5. Be critical.
6. Tell your spouse they need to change, but you make no effort to change.
7. Ignore your spouses needs.
8. Make no effort to improve yourself or your marriage.
9. Never compliment your spouse.
10. Speak negatively about your spouse around other people.
11. Make no effort to keep yourself "looking good" for your spouse.
12. Use derogatory names like stupid, dumb, ignorant and idiot.
13. Always blame your spouse for the problems. It's never your fault.
14. Take your mate for granted.
15. Quit trying to impress your spouse (you're married, it's not needed anymore).
16. Withhold sex to punish your spouse.
17. Never take any time to get away without the kids.
18. When arguing ... bring up old stuff from the past.
19. Have a short fuse.
20. When angry be verbally abusive.
21. Never seek outside help when you come to an impasse.
22. Don't tell your spouse how much you love or appreciate them. Just expect them to know it.
23. Have a "it's my way or the highway" attitude.
24. Spend more time with your friends than your spouse.
25. Never say "I love you."
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1 comment:
Very good, and I am guilty of a few of these...made me look at myself. Good stuff! God showed me recently that when we complain about anything, we have a complaining spirit..which means virtually we are blaming God for our lot.
So,praise is the answer...praise Him for everthing, it may not change a problem but it will change us.
Bless you. Crystal Lindsey
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